.: ChiLdhOoD meMoRy :.

I remember it like yesterday. We were all waiting patiently for my father to come home from the workplace.One memories that so hard to goes around my mind is when I was young, at the time,when i'm in standard 4, You know what, In Malaysia,especially muslim for sure to have a ceremony that we call 'majlis berkhatan'.That day, in Friday,after my father done his job in the office, He already told me want to bring me to meet the 'tok mudim'.

.Only Allah know my feeling when that time come, so nervous and a ton of scary. But, I try to persuade myself,What ever will happen,I will not run from the reality.When my family arrived the 'tok mudim' house.I felt very high pressure like the bomb want to explode.I trying to run away until nobody look me. But,2 of my brother already hold me like a stone.

.And then,the first pace when entering the house, I feel want to faint. When the ceremony start, I scream like a crazyman.hahaha.don't know how to describe my condition at that time.

.About ten minutes after it done, I feel like from dead to alive. And I am very grateful to Allah because made all the thing gonna smooth and noting weird was happen.

.Until the day I still thinking of the ceremony and it surely made me laughing by myself =P

.: SuPeRmAn :.

If I c0uLd Be s0me0ne, wh0 w0uLd I Be???

This topic so interesting to discuss…

Firstly ,went we look at this topic many thing that we will thinking because if we have been given a chance If you could be someone, who would you be? of course the answer is many person that we want to be right. For example if we love to played football we must want to be like cristiano ronaldo o lionel messi. this 2 person have a good skill and technique in football. They have their own attitude and good discipline that can attract other people to look at them went they is on the pitch. but, If we love to hear music we must choose to be like lady gaga and justin bieber. why I talk like that because both of them have a good talent in singing and they also have complete package to be a good singer.

But for me If I could be someone, I will choose to be a SUPERMAN.

Maybe went the first time you see the SUPERMAN, you would be categorized him as a crazy person because he is the only superhero or person that wear the underwear outside the pants. This is a ridiculous and not plausible. But like the old people said the 'don’t judge the book by it cover'. This word so suitable to use for describe about superman.

Why I choose to be SUPERMAN?

There are many reason why I choose SUPERMAN if I get a chance to be someone else..

All the reason are list below :

.:He is a good and kind person:.

.:He always help other people that have a problem:.

.:He willing to mortgage his life to save other people:.

.:He has a unique suite:.

.:He no need other help to fight with criminals or thief or goon:.

.:He always be himself:.

.:He has high level of confidence:.

.:He is courage and brave person:.

.:He does not use advanced technology to increase his strength & power because for him the power in himself exceeded all :.

SUPERMAN is a person who always helped other people in trouble and he never asked any consideration (eg; money or valuables). He do all this with sincerity and honest.That why I want to be like SUPERMAN

In Islamic view, people are always helping others who are in trouble will be given rewards from Allah SWT. This is an attitude that is very precious in the sight of Islam. People who are always helps other people will be promised the place in heaven by Allah SWT.

Lastly, if I got a chance to wear the superman costume I will wear the underwear inside the pants because for me it seems more polite.

hehe=))

.: My dReAm :.

What is dream ???

i think u’ll have your own meaning about dream in your life.dream is a something that abstract.all people in this region must have their own dream.i also have my own dream.since I was children I already have a dream.my dreams are,I want to have my own sport car,big house,good job and be a person that have a lots of money because for me if we have a money i can buy anything that i want.Below is the 5 list of the world's richest billionaire that always inspired me to be a success person :

1. Carlos Slim Helu (Mexico) - Telecom

2. Bill Gates (USA) - Microsoft

3. Warren Buffett (USA) - Investment

4. Mukesh Ambani (India) - Petrochemical,Oil & Gas

5. Lakshmi Mittal (India) - Steel

But for sure when im getting older I know,to achieve my dream it is a something that really hard to get.it’s all because i must to work hard and never feel give up in whatever I do.firstly,to get a good and better life in future I must have to success in my study for get a good job.to success in study it is a not easy at all.because I will face a many challenger and obstacle.

when I’m was 7 years old my parent already sent me to school because they want me to be a good and success person.they also have talked to me that,if I want to achieve my dream I must go to school and study hard.from there I know that,school is a platform where I can obtain a knowledge that I can bring along for the road to success.now I already 19 years old and I still study at KPTM Kuantan in Diploma of Information Technology.i think since I’m study here I gain a lots of experience and learn a lots of new thing that I can make as supply to success in my future and achieve my dream. After I graduated in diploma, I wish to continue my study in master and further maybe in PhD.I feel after I get away with master all my dream will comes true because dream will not be enjoyed and felt if we only know how to think or speaks about it without any action in doing.

Insya’Allah, if all my dream comes true, i want to bring my parent and whole my family go to Mecca to perform hajj and sign my gratitude to Allah S.W.T for what He has given to me.of course if have I my own sport car,big house and a lot of money,I want to build my own family that will always lived in peace and harmony.The person that I want to married to finish my bachelor days must be a women that I really loved and care.

Lastly,the thing that I need to do to achieve my dream is I must be close with Allah SWT. I will always pray to Allah SWT to fulfill and realize what I expected for my dreams. Aminn..

.: ProCrAstiNAtiOn :.

Why procrastination is the Thief of Time

We all have things to do and goals to accomplish, time is limited and we want to get more things done in less time. However, for some reason many people just don't do the things they know they have to do to be successful and finish their projects, work or tasks. What we know for sure, is that procrastination is the thief of time, if you don't control it you are wasting time.

There are many reason why people avoid doing things, sometimes it seems strange why even knowing what they have to do to be successful they don't do it. There is people with so much talent and abilities that never accomplish anything because they get sidetracked by the lack of focus and waste of time.

When you are procrastinating you are losing precious time that you will never get back. There are so many things that you can do to have a better life. If you have financial problems but you make good use of your time you can increase your earnings. If you are a student you should get done your homework right away so later you can do other things that you like.

But how can you stop procrastination? it depends in each person, some people are just frustrated and think that they don't have the abilities and talent to accomplish a complex task so they make excuses to postpone the work.

If you want to get rid of this problem, the first thing that you have to do is, make a plan and schedule of what you want to accomplish each day and in how much time. You need to set deadlines every day and follow your schedule at all costs.

Make a list of the most important things that you have to do and do it. If you keep thinking in unimportant things that you want to do, just make 20 minute deadlines. Focus on your work for 20 minutes without distraction and then take a small rest, then continue for another 20 minutes.

This way you can keep track of how much you are moving forward every hour and every day, when you start seeing some important improvements and accomplishments, you will get motivated to get more done without losing time on irrelevant tasks.

Preventing Procrastination Activity

One of the most difficult things to overcome is procrastination, everyone at some point have to deal with it and can be very frustrating. When you are procrastinating you are delaying the things or tasks that you should be doing for later and most of the times later never comes.

However, although most people have procrastination at some point, people that are successful at what they do overcome it, they have strong goals that they have to accomplish and no matter in how good or bad mood they are, they will do what they have to do under any circumstances.

But how do you overcome procrastination?

Lets see some things that you can do to avoid procrastination and start achieving your goals.

First ask your self why are you avoiding doing your work?

is there something that is worrying you, do you have an emotional problem with someone, are you sabotaging your self.

Once you know those answers you need to resolve those if possible or forget about them and do at this moment what you have to do. It might not seem simple, but we have to deal with problems every day of our life and they are not going to disappear, so you have to learn to dedicate a certain amount of time to your work, without thinking or worrying about what is going to happen with the other problems.

Set a deadline to accomplish a task, set how much time you are going to work every day and how many hours are you going to dedicate to each task. For example, if you have to write 10 articles a day, make sure you don’t do anything else until you have dedicated 3 hours to those articles or whatever amount of time you require.

The most important point to overcome procrastination is to begin. Write down what tasks you must get done today and at what time you are going to begin. When the time comes, start doing your task, it doesn’t matter if you have everything in place or how much there is, you just have to start, even if you are not doing it good.

Reward your self once you have accomplished a task. For example, if finished your 10 articles, stand up and take a drink or snack, then comeback and do the next tasks until you finish it.

Those are some important point to overcome procrastination, you need to find you true motivation and set specific deadlines and goals to accomplish every day, if you don't have a plan, you are planing to fail.

.: PrAyEr :.

Prayer is communication between man and God. A family that incorporates prayer into their lifestyle are giving the ultimate gift to themselves. Life is difficult and suffering is an inevitable part of life. A family that prays knows that they can turn to God and be accepted and loved for who they are. Every human being needs to turn to God with his or her triumphs and failures and know that life is meaningful. A family that prays together has the ultimate support system.

it is the pillar of religion,

it is the second pillar of Islam,

it is the difference between Islam and infidels,

once 50 times a day,

but now five times a day,

have the wisdom and guidance, despite the implementation,

integrity necessary to accomplish this,

was purified from impurities are provided to do so,

He loved to teach his people how to set it up,

should be taught and nurtured to do so from the age of childhood,

at the age of 10 years, those who do not fit beaten,

promised paradise to those who do,

shall take ablutions before do it,

there is flexibility to travel to do so,

elderly and the sick received only reason not to do so,

neglect is a sin,

do is a reward,

prayer will be accepted when doing so,

make them realize it,

it gives peace of mind,

it removes the anger,

it is to educate Muslims to seek God,

it teaches us to be more diligent and disciplined,

teach us to realize that we have a creator,

teach us to be grateful,

it is mandatory,

it is prayer.

Prayer is the most powerful weapon for Muslims to ask something from ALLAH SWT. With prayer we can ask for help, forgiveness and blessings in the life of ALLAH SWT.People are always praying to the Almighty GOD life is blessed with prosperity in this world and the hereafter. Those who believe and fear are those who never forget to ALLAH SWT, and they are people who constantly call on God Almighty and these are groups that will be placed in Paradise in the Hereafter. To succeed in life, we should always pray to ALLAH SWT. We also should pray to God Almighty every time no matter the circumstances we are happy or difficult, poor or rich, as all we have in this world are temporary and not permanent. as humans we should be aware that we were created by God Almighty and we'll be back on Him when we die. Seconded the world while this is a place for humans to worship and pray to ALLAH SWT for supplies made during the Day of Judgement. Just what is going to last forever is our love for ALLAH SWT

who's this person ???

he is a good person..he have good attitude, behaviour and personality..he not a selfish person..he always do their best in his study to get a success..the attitude that i like the most about him is he always try to help other people to solve a problem although at the same time he got their own problem..for me he is special person..anybody that close with him always feel happy with his joke..he also easy to become close with anyone because for him friends are important in their life..and 1 more thing he always talk to me that whatever happen in our life faced it with resilient and never give up..who know about whom that i talked about ???...

.: nOn VerBaL cOmmUniCaTioN :.

Communication :

When we talk about communication we will be define it as :

# process of transferring information from one entity to another..

# two ways interaction between sender and receiver..

# give, receive @ exchange information, opinion, idea by writting, speach or visual means that material communication is completely understood by every one concerns..

Effective Communication :

# is inevitable in today's world..

# when we talk with our family, friend, lecturer or anybody we need to communicate with them and give a positive signal to make them understand what message that we give and also can help us to avoid any problem..

Non Verbal Communication :

# Is the communication of interchanging opinion or information without the use of spoken words..

Types Of Non Verbal Communication :

Eye Contact :

# We communicate a lot of emotion through our eyes. Eye to eye contact is very important in communication. Lack of eye contact can indicate that the person is hiding something, telling lies, avoiding the communicator. It may signal negative self image of the person.

Postures:

# Sitting postures or position also communicate a person’s attitude. Rigid posture may indicate stress. Folding of hands may indicate ‘not ready to open up’. Leaning towards to the communicator may indicate aggressive attitude or interested also.

Gestures:

# Facial expressions, voice qualities & tempo, body movements, smile, head nods are coming under gestures.

# Non-verbal Communication is important and we need to learn the effective ways of non-verbal communication to be successful in this world. If we observe people we are talking to we can learn more. I feel observation is the best way of learning effective non-verbal communication.